Is Co-Buying the Answer?

A creative way to turn someday into now.

For a lot of potential first-time home buyers, affordability is what’s standing in their way. But some buyers are getting creative and finding a way to still make the numbers work – and that’s through co-buying.

The Dream Is Still Alive. The Math Just Isn’t Working for Everyone.

Young people haven’t given up on the dream of owning a home – not even close. According to FirstHome IQ, homeownership still ranks among the top life goals for the next generation.

The problem? 73% of Gen Z and millennial buyers cite affordability as the reason for not making homeownership a priority. And it shows. First-time buyers now make up just 21%  of all home purchases, the lowest share since the National Association of Realtors (NAR) started tracking the data in 1981.

But still, some buyers are making it happen. And a portion of them are turning to co-buying to get their foot in the door.

So, What’s Co-Buying?

Co-buying means purchasing a home with someone else, like a friend, sibling, or unmarried partner. You combine incomes, split the down payment, and share monthly costs. For some people, it’s a creative way to turn “someday” into a concrete move-in date that’s just around the corner.

And it’s catching on fast, just look at where things stand today. According to CoBuy.io, 64 million Americans now co-own a home with someone they’re not married to. In fact, 31.5% of home purchases involve co-buyers (see graph below):

Why It Works

Here are just a few of the top reasons buyers are going this route, according to NerdWallet:

  • Quicker path to homeownership: If owning a home is a serious goal for you, buying with someone else can help make that reality on a shorter timeline. Two or more people can save up a down payment a lot faster than one. That’s less time waiting and more time building equity in a place that’s yours.
  • More purchasing power: With multiple incomes going toward the home purchase, you might be able to afford a nicer home or live in a more popular neighborhood. Sometimes teaming up means getting the home you actually want, not just the one you can barely afford on your own.
  • Easier loan qualification: Added income from more than one buyer can also help with your debt-to-income (DTI) ratio, which the lender will calculate based on all the borrowers.
  • Lower housing costs: Splitting up a mortgage payment multiple ways could maybe even make owning less expensive than renting Plus, sharing costs can make repairs or renovations more manageable, too.

Things To Keep in Mind

If you’re considering going this route, there are some things you’ll want to think over. For starters, co-buying works best with people you trust and share financial goals with. So, before moving forward, make sure everyone agrees on how costs are split, who handles what, and what happens if one person wants to sell down the road.

That’s why a written co-ownership agreement can be a smart move. It keeps everyone on the same page and helps avoid headaches down the line. Think of it less like a legal formality and more like a game plan for your new investment.

Bottom Line

Affordability challenges are real, but they don’t have to mean waiting indefinitely. Co-buying is helping some first-time buyers stop waiting and start putting down roots.

If you’re curious whether it could work for your situation, let’s talk. Reach out today and let’s figure out your path to homeownership together. You can always find us at 508-388-1994 (Mari and Hank) and 781-423-8662 (Colleen).

Mari, Hank, and Colleen

Nothing herein should be construed as investment advice. You should always conduct your own research and due diligence and obtain professional advice before making any investment decision.

The Best Time to Buy is Here!

Homebuyers are in the best position in more than five years to find the right home and negotiate for a better price. 

If you’ve been watching from the sidelines, now’s the time to lean in. It’s officially the best time to buy this year. According to Realtor.com, this October will have the most buyer-friendly conditions of any month in 2025:

“By mid-October, buyers may finally find the combination of inventory, pricing, and negotiating power they’ve been waiting for—a rare opportunity in a market that has been tight for most of the past decade.”

So, if you’re ready and able to buy this month this means you should see:

  • More homes to choose from
  • Less competition from other buyers
  • More time to browse
  • Better home prices
  • Sellers who are more willing to negotiate

While October 12-18 is the national “best week,” conditions are in place now for buyers who have been waiting to upsize, downsize or right size to find the properties they’ve been looking for at prices that they’re willing to pay.

Here on Cape Cod, inventory is increasing as are days on market for listed properties. This means sellers should be interested in negotiating prices and terms so they can move on with their lives. Mortgage interest rates are also the lowest that they have been in a year helping buyers afford what are still high prices.

And remember home prices are lower elsewhere in other parts of Massachusetts, as well as New England and the country as a whole. So, you don’t have to limit your search to just on Cape. Through the various connections we have with realtors off Cape and elsewhere, we can refer you to a very qualified Realtor who can help you with your search.

What the Experts Are Saying

Realtor.com isn’t the only one saying you’ve got an opportunity if you move now. Lawrence Yun, Chief Economist at the National Association of Realtors (NAR), explains:

Homebuyers are in the best position in more than five years to find the right home and negotiate for a better price. Current inventory is at its highest since May 2020, during the COVID lockdown.”

Daryl Fairweather, Chief Economist at Redfin, puts it like this:

Nationally, now is a good time to buy, if you can afford it . . . with falling mortgage rates and significantly more inventory, buyers have an upper hand in negotiations.”

And NerdWallet says:

“This fall just might be the best window for home buyers in the past five years.”

How To Get Ready

To make sure you’re ready to jump, talk to us now. We can give you the information you need to decide if this is the time for you to buy. We can discuss timing, strategy, and how you may be able to buy your new home before selling your current one.

You can find us at 508-388-1994 or msennott@todayrealestate.com. We’re here to help…


BTW…Hank’s new book of short stories will be available soon. Please watch for it. Copies “signed by the author” can be purchased via Venmo. Contact Mari for details. Thanks.

Nothing herein should be construed as investment advice. You should always conduct your own research and due diligence and obtain professional advice before making any investment decision.